A certain stage of maturity has to be reached before we are willing to accept our own vulnerability. But what a liberating experience when we reach that point! The “willingness to remain vulnerable” is one of the finest fruits of honest living.
We are creatures who dream and aspire. We set goals and reach toward them. We are not content to stay put. That being true, it’s all the more strange that many of us do stay put! What we need is a more powerful appreciation of “movement.”
Thoughtfulness involves not only stopping to think of others but anticipating their needs and wishes. Thoughtful people are those who think of others with a noticeable degree of wisdom and sensitivity. Deep down, this concern is a product of love.
Relief is “the easing of a burden or distress, such as pain, anxiety, or oppression.” Our burdens may not be physical, but they are no less oppressive, and when one person provides relief for another, something happens that is wonderful indeed.
Philanthropy is not just for the rich. Our means may be more limited than the rich, but we’re still responsible for doing what we can. Also, philanthropy is not just about money. Things like time and effort are often more needed than financial help.
One of the most ennobling things in life is to aspire to the making of a positive contribution, one that will add a little quality or excellence to the world’s output. When we labor toward that end, good things can be expected to happen.
We must be those who not only receive security but also give it. It is, after all, more blessed to give than to receive. And there are few gifts any better than when we say to someone, “In every possible way, I want to help make you secure.”
Without integrity, life is worth little. If we violate our principles to acquire fame, fortune, power, security, or social acceptance, what have we gained in the long term? We must guard our integrity even when it is hard. ESPECIALLY when it is hard!
A lifetime of painstaking effort to become trustworthy can be thrown away in a moment of carelessness, and once lost, credibility is extremely hard to regain. So if we want others to listen when we speak, let us tell the truth carefully and kindly!
In the story of the Good Samaritan, the “attitude” of the man who helped the injured traveler is not commented on. What made him different is that he acted on the impulse to give aid. As the saying goes, “a little help is worth a great deal of pity.”