In Creole country, there is a beautiful proverb which says, “Tell me whom you love, and I’ll tell you who you are.” Today, let’s meditate on those whom we love — let’s resolve to love them more purely, strongly, tenderly . . . and lovingly!
Things like character growth should have a higher priority than ease and pleasure. And if the goodness of something is judged by what it does for our character, we’d have to say that challenges and tests should be placed in the good category.
Continuous improvement requires paying honest attention to where we are, daily examining the worthiness of our goals, actively learning things that we don’t yet know, and never ceasing to pull our performance up the level of our ideals.
Many wonderful doors open to us when we learn the simple habit of willingness. We can consciously open our hearts to the things that are ours to do, even those that are obligatory, and when we do, everything takes on a much better appearance.
As undesirable as ignorance is, there is something worse, and that’s a lack of integrity. Asking a question should mean not only that we want to know the truth about something; it should also mean that we want to do what’s right about that truth.
Some people run from hard work as if it were a disease. You’d think that work is undesirable, something to be done only if there is no other choice, and not a minute longer than it takes to get it over with. This is an unfortunate misconception.
What people want is for us to be comfortable in our own skins, to work hard at being the best “us” we can be, and to extend ourselves to them naturally and honestly. Most folks find snapshots more endearing than glamour shots.
We all need to have “comfort zones,” but we can’t stay inside them all the time. There may be a good deal of coziness, but there’s very little learning, and learning is an unavoidable necessity if there’s going to be any progress in our lives.
When others know that we can be counted on, and that when we’ve failed to do what’s right, we’ll spend our time making restitution rather than making excuses, they will find a security in their relationship with us that can’t be found any other way.
No matter how richly textured they may be in other ways, if our characters haven’t been made more worthy by the acquirement of virtue, then we’re still paupers. To be rich, in the long run, simply means to do what is right.