We need those who will provide safety. When we fall, there’ll be strong arms to catch us and keep us from doing further harm. The best will be believed about us, and when we’ve erred, safety means that loving allowance will be made for our growth.
When called upon to make distinctions and render judgments, we’re tempted to apply a more lenient list of rules to our family and friends than to our enemies. Yet to be truly just and impartial, we must apply the same set of standards to everybody.
In a sense, courage is the main quality that life requires of us. There is nothing life can do to hurt us as much as we hurt ourselves by our unwillingness to embrace life and live it fully. Lives that make a difference are lives that go forward!
The “eloquent” person is “persuasive, fluent, and graceful in discourse.” It seems to me that all three elements of this definition suggest some things we’d all do well to be interested in: persuasiveness, fluency, and gracefulness in our speech.
In the midst of life’s many uncertainties, we need friends who are steady and confidently predictable. And since our friends also need that kind of friendship, it wouldn’t be a waste of time for us to move our own predictability up a notch or two.
We should try to keep love from being anything less than romantic. The thoughtful things we do today ought to be spread out a little more evenly throughout the year. It takes work to keep the romantic fires burning, but it’s well worth it.
We talk about progress, but most of us are content to stick with what we’ve already got. But thank goodness for those with the courage to break through limits! Let’s appreciate them for the scary, unsettling sacrifices they’ve been willing to make.
Courage must be balanced by other virtues. Many of the most sinister figures in history have been courageous. So it is no great thing to act courageously if our actions are not governed by a conscience grounded in principles like justice and equity.
Some of the best work we ever do is the work of upgrading our personal standards. None of us has a perfect set of standards yet, and so we need to be working continually on their quality, aligning them with principles of time-tested value.
Will we participate in life’s drama or remain among the spectators? If we choose to be active, good things are more than likely to happen. But if we decide to remain passive and uninvolved, it’s less likely that we’ll enjoy life’s goodness.